maerdot
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Jul 29, 2004 0:09:35 GMT -5
Post by maerdot on Jul 29, 2004 0:09:35 GMT -5
alright so what would you do for a klondike bar?... hrmm but seriously what if being in something made you unhappy and you've done it forever.. its not what the club does, but just the people. For some reason I feel that when I am around them individually htey are great people, but when we together as a whole are together I feel that these people need to grow up....
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Aug 9, 2004 1:47:53 GMT -5
Post by SirKibbles on Aug 9, 2004 1:47:53 GMT -5
Heh, sometimes others bring out the wrost in people. ...and maybe when they are all around eachother, their personallities wash off on eachother, and just end up making a bad mix. Sorry I can't give much advice... I'm also wondering the same thing. I have the same problem sometimes, though it's a bit different. Mine is why do people tend to act so "tough" infront of certain people. Like all of a sudden they turn into this "cool"/"tough" person. I'm all, "you were just giggling like 5 seconds ago, but now since he is here your trying to act all cool and stuff". Well, I hope in someway, somehow this post helps you. Haven't seen that many post on this site from you, so I hope you continue to post things. Heh, and sorry that it's taken me this long to see your post and reply on it.
Buh-Bye
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Aug 9, 2004 16:36:17 GMT -5
Post by ACT II on Aug 9, 2004 16:36:17 GMT -5
Sorry I took so long to see this post maerdot.
Well I have the same problem a lot. And as my friend told me when I turned to him, never underestimate the power of one voice. If you don't like what they're doing, or don't agree with it, tell them. Be honest, be sincere, and try to be nice about it if you have to because after all these are people who you've called your friends. But be firm. Above all be honest to yourself and do what you think is right.
You never know, these people may in fact grow up. And they may not. But you will never know unless you try to change them. Even if they don't "grow up" then you will have done your part as a true friend and tried to steer them in the direction you believe is good. And whatever it is they're doing, you don't have to do the same thing even though these are buddies. As friends, they should be able to respect that.
And SirKibbles' example is true. A lot of people put on facades when around certain others. That's why being true to yourself is so important. Many thing will fail and have failed us in this life. Honesty has never led anyone I know astray.
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